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January 17, 2024

New Year, New Beginnings: Surround Yourself with Elevating Forces

Submitted by Sarah E. Maass

As we embark on a new year, let's reflect on the wisdom shared by Matthew Kelly in his book, The Rhythm of Life: Living Every Day with Passion and Purpose:

 "The people we surround ourselves with either raise or lower our standards. They either help us become the-best-version-of-ourselves or encourage us to become lesser versions of ourselves. We become like our friends. No man becomes great on his own. No woman becomes great on her own. The people around them help make them great.

 We all need people in our lives who raise our standards, remind us of our essential purpose, and challenge us to become the-best-version-of-ourselves. "

 Kelly emphasizes the profound impact the people we surround ourselves with have on our journey toward being our best.

 

The Power of Influence: Kelly suggests that our social circle plays a pivotal role in shaping our standards and influencing our personal growth. Just as a rising tide lifts all boats, being surrounded by individuals who inspire, challenge, and uplift us can propel us to become the best versions of ourselves.

 

Collective Greatness: The idea that no person becomes great in isolation underscores the importance of community and collaboration. Greatness is often a collective achievement, fueled by the positive energy, encouragement, and support of those around us. As we set out to achieve our goals, let's acknowledge the strength that comes from unity and shared aspirations.

 

Shared Purpose: Having people who remind us of our essential purpose can be a guiding light in our journey. They help us stay aligned with our values and goals, ensuring that we continue to strive for what truly matters. Surrounding ourselves with individuals who share a common purpose fosters a sense of belonging and strengthens our resolve.

 

Challenge and Growth: Genuine friends and colleagues are those who not only celebrate our successes but also challenge us to reach higher. Embracing challenges is key to personal growth, and having a support system that encourages us to step out of our comfort zones is invaluable. Let's welcome challenges as opportunities for learning and transformation.

 

Becoming the Best Version of Ourselves: In essence, the people we choose to have in our lives contribute to shaping our destiny. Let this new year be a reminder to intentionally surround ourselves with those who inspire us to be the-best-version-of-ourselves. Together, we can create a tapestry of shared aspirations, mutual support, and collective achievement.

 

Here's to a new year filled with meaningful connections, shared purpose, and the unwavering support of those who elevate us. May we all become the architects of our best selves, hand in hand with the uplifting forces that surround us.

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